DON'T ALLOW YOUR SEXUAL PAST TO COME BACK AND HAUNT YOU
Did you know that the last thing your boyfriend wants to think about is another guy having been with you whether for sex or just hooking up. The thought of some other guy getting down with his girlfriend can literally drive any man crazy.
Do you have a checkered sexual history with several escapades? If so, your boyfriend might have trouble dealing with this. But this is something that he must accept.
Don't you dare let someone else throw your past in your face or hold it against you. If it's ancient history or only a few months ago, let it stay there, and move on.
If your man has chosen to be with you... he needs to accept you for all that you are. And that means everything. It doesn't mean he has to like your sexual history, of course, but it means he shouldn't, hold it against you. It's completely unfair for him to want to date you and then start knit-picking about details from your past.
If he's constantly bringing up your past, tell him flat out that he's going to have to accept everything about you, if he wants to date you. Let him know he has two choices; (1) You two to break up, or (2) You two to stay together...but he must never mention your sexual past ever again, not even when you two have a misunderstanding.
On your part, you must learn from your mistakes and move on. You must realize that the few moments of pleasure that come from sex and hooking up can have a permanent effect on your reputation and self-esteem. If you've chosen to change your 'free loving' ways, you're doing the right thing and that's what matters most. On the other hand, if you've only had a few hookups and your man is making a major issue about it, you might want to rethink whether you really need to date such a holier-than-thou person.
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